TED Talk by Dave Isay of StoryCorps [deyv AHY-sey ov STAWR-ee kawr] in March 2015
All we know is stories. Some are helpful, some not. None are reality. Reality is not a story. Reality is what is. And this is beyond words.
— George Atherton (@notrehta) November 18, 2012
All we know is stories. Some are helpful, some not. These are.
at 14:45, from the transcript:
I'm going to tell you a secret about StoryCorps. It takes some courage to have these conversations. StoryCorps speaks to our mortality. Participants know this recording will be heard long after they're gone. There's a hospice doctor named Ira Byock who has worked closely with us on recording interviews with people who are dying. He wrote a book called "The Four Things That Matter Most" about the four things you want to say to the most important people in your life before they or you die: thank you, I love you, forgive me, I forgive you. They're just about the most powerful words we can say to one another, and often that's what happens in a StoryCorps booth. It's a chance to have a sense of closure with someone you care about -- no regrets, nothing left unsaid. And it's hard and it takes courage, but that's why we're alive, right?
“the four things you want to say … before they or you die: thank you, I love you, forgive me, I forgive you” https://t.co/EepVKop2mh
— George Atherton (@notrehta) August 18, 2016
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