I think of Uber as a modern-day version of the Works Progress Administration during the Depression. Thanks to Uber, I am not poor. I am just … nobody.
When I first started driving, I talked to every passenger. I engaged in conversation about the city, life and politics. I told them about my work as a reporter, and as a strip club manager. I felt the need to say, “I’m not really an Uber driver. I am someone too. Just like you!”
Nobody cared.
I found that I could become visible or invisible at will. It’s about the voice. Say “please” and “thank you” and shut up and drive. Don’t make eye contact. People come in with their antenna up and on alert. Once they see you are no threat, they turn you off.
This crushes the ego. As it turns out in my case, that’s a good thing. Next comes acceptance. I am a driver. I drive. I work and go home and then work again. I speak less and listen more. People drone on about their work and lives and I nod as if to agree even as I think, mostly, “what a wanker.”
Only when they initiate conversation do I join in. It just doesn’t matter. Nothing matters.
And that’s when the healing starts. It is Zen and the Art of Uber Driving.
beyond the mind – beyond all thought of past and future – there is only what is
nothing is other than this being
no one is
and what is – this being – is a gift beyond words: the present
* * *
avoid harming any being
avoid killing, stealing, cheating, lying, and otherwise denying awareness of being …
all being, all that is: the present
just be … and do no more than need be done to be and let be*
this being ::
Beyond the Mind :: *
with loving-kindness, compassion, empathic joy, and equanimity